When Spouses Curse
by Hazrat Maulana Yunus Patel Saheb
(rahmatullahi alayh)

A husband complained that he was always angry with his wife, and they continuously argued.

…There are so many such cases : If it is not the husband complaining of his wife, it is the wife complaining of her husband.

In this case, having been informed of the weaknesses of his wife, which are common to other women as well, I said: ‘I agree with you that there are weaknesses in women. However, there are also weaknesses in men. …Moreover, your anger is for worldly reasons. You are cursing your wife and inviting that same curse upon yourself...’

Securing Rewards in Marriage
by Hazrat Maulana Yunus Patel Saheb
(rahmatullahi alayh)

The sawaab (reward) for the sabr (patience) a woman exercises over her difficulties in managing the home of her husband and fulfilling the rights of her husband and children sometimes is such, which makes her ‘reach’ Allah Ta’ala very quickly.

This, however, is conditional to her obedience to Allah Ta’ala; fulfilling His Rights, the Rights of His Rasul (Sallallaahu ‘alayhi waSallam), as well as the Rights of His Creation.