Prescription for Lustful Gazes
Prescription for Lustful Gazes by Hazrat Maulana Yunus Patel Saheb (rahmatullah ‘alayh) Lustful gazes have become an epidemic with consequences that are so far-reaching, to the point of crippling one’s spirituality, weakening one’s Iman, sometimes even to the extent of losing one’s Iman – for a pretty face or a handsome face. (May Allah Ta’ala protect us all). More and more Muslim brothers and even sisters write, after realizing or experiencing the effects of the ‘bitter-sweet’ poison of evil glancing: They want an antidote; they desperately want to escape their habit –before they self-destruct; because their practice of casting lustful gazes landed them in the gutters of immorality and they have had to then contend with disgrace, humiliation and sometimes a life-long stigma. But they find themselves weak in the face of the demands of their nafs. And the nafs —by nature, enjoy the forbidden and are never satisfied even on fulfilment of its demands. It is like the ocean’s salty water: it increases thirst and does not quench thirst. So, for those who find themselves weak in lowering their gazes from Haraam, they should now use their eyes – the invaluable gift of sight, in carefully reading the following prescription for a cure. Alhamdulillah, if followed, lowering the gaze will become second nature, and a person will reach a stage where he will not even care if Miss Universe is passing in front of him because he will have tasted the sweetness of Iman and will know the lofty experiences that come on pleasing Allah Ta’ala. To cast an evil gaze will then be most indecent and shameful for him. The person will now know better than to disgrace himself, destroy the tranquillity and Sukoon of his heart, and exchange the sweet pleasure of Allah Ta’ala’s love for what will inevitably become dust. My Shaykh, Hadhrat Moulana Hakim Muhammad Akhtar Saheb (rahmatullah ‘alayh) said in poetry: “I will not look, I will not look, Never will I look at one, Looking upon whom, Displeases my Rabb (Allah Ta’ala).” Whilst beauty is an attribute that charms and captivates any heart, if it is that which Allah Ta’ala has declared as forbidden, it not only destroys the peace of the heart, but it also lays to waste the very substance of Iman that resides in the heart. Therefore, Allah Ta’ala addresses both the believing men and believing women: “Tell the Believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at that which is Haraam) and to be modest (i.e. To protect themselves from prohibited deeds like adultery and fornication, etc.) That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is aware of what they do.” “And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at that which is forbidden) and to be modest (i.e., To protect themselves from prohibited deeds like adultery, fornication, etc.) And not show off their beauty except that which is apparent, and let them wear their head-coverings over their bosoms )” [Surah An – Nur 24: 30/ 31] The absolute wisdom and beauty inherent in these injunctions of Allah Ta’ala, of lowering the gaze, guarding one’s modesty (and adopting the full Hijaab for women), is that a person will remain far from the crime of Zina (adultery/fornication), as well as the steppingstones to Zina. All those actions that lead to the commission of sin are forbidden, like the sin itself. Like Zina is prohibited, so are all those actions that will inevitably lead to Zina. Therefore, Allah Ta’ala says: “And do not go near Zina. Indeed, it is a shameful and evil path”. [Surah Al – Isra 17:32] Evil glancing is the very inception of Zina. By lowering the gaze, we curtail furthering our evil desires. These injunctions of Allah Ta’ala protect from sin and should be appreciated by practical implementation. It is not impossible to lower the gaze from Haraam, as some say. If we have the ability to look up, we also have the ability to look down or turn our gazes away. We open and close our eyes, so why is it difficult to look down or away when we accidentally see a pretty face? More especially when that pretty face will result in: – The heart burning with restlessness, – Darkness filling the heart, – The Noor of the heart and the Noor of the face being lost. – Earning the displeasure of Allah Ta’ala – Inviting the Curses of Allah Ta’ala. All that is required is a little courage. If we are bold enough to displease Allah Ta’ala in His presence, then this proves that we can be brave enough to displease nafs and Shaytaan instead. We need to have courage and re-channel it to earn His Pleasure. Our respected Shaykh, Hazrat Maulana Hakim Muhammad Akhtar Saheb (rahmatullah ‘alayh) had mentioned that if a person is a lover of sweets and he is informed that in a certain district, there are many sweet shops, the person naturally feels happy because he will be able to enjoy sweetness any time he so wishes.Allah Ta’ala’s promise on lowering the gaze is the sweetness of Iman. In a Hadeeth-e-Qudsi, Allah Ta’ala says: “Verily evil glancing is an arrow from the poisonous arrows of Shaytaan. Whosoever fears Me (Allah) and refrains from it will receive from Me such Iman, the sweetness of which he will taste (feel) in his heart.”[1] We should consider the occasions when we are in public areas and other venues, where there may be many strange women present, as an opportunity of lowering our gaze and enjoy and savour the sweetness of Iman. Of course, this should not be misconstrued to mean that we visit those places where there is temptation. Where there is mud, even an elephant can slip. At such a time – when the desire is strong to cast that evil gaze, immediately strike a deal with Allah Ta’ala. Say: “O Allah, it is solely for Your Pleasure and out of Love for You